D'var Torah by Rabbi Harold J. Kravitz
Rosh Hashanah, Day 1—September 10, 2018

The last year and a half has been an emotional roller coaster for our family.

I lost my mom Mildred last year and was saying Kaddish until May. In late June Cindy’s dad Irv died, so this year she is saying Kaddish. It is a lot to lose two parents in a short time. As we reflect on these losses, we are both deeply grateful for the support we received from our community, both the community here at Adath and the community we have with friends and colleagues that extends far beyond MN. We are so thankful for the many contributions, the notes of support, the meals, all kinds of people who checked in on us.

D'var Torah by Rabbi Aaron Weininger
Rosh Hashanah Day 2—September 11, 2018

I remember where I was when… For many here it may be, “I remember where I was when the Halloween Blizzard hit.” Or, “I remember where I was when the Twins last won the World Series.” Both date back to 1991. Sorry Twins fans—maybe next year. My parents would say they remember where they were when John F. Kennedy was assassinated, or where they were when Neil Armstrong took his first steps on the moon.  

By Sheri Steinman

The year was 1978, and Lorraine Astren was President of the Midwest Branch of Women’s League for Conservative Judaism and attending a National Women's League Convention in New York. Lorraine, along with branch delegates from the three synagogues of Minneapolis (Adath, Beth El and B’nai Emet) brought up a motion that the Conservative seminaries should allow women to be trained as rabbis, cantors and educators—but their motion was tabled. However, two years later at the next National Convention, the same motion was brought up, and this time it was unanimously passed. It was then sent to the Jewish Theological Seminary (JTS) where they subsequently passed the motion and the Conservative Movement’s seminaries became open to women.

D'var Torah by Rabbi Aaron Weininger
on June 2, 2018


I’d bet most people here know how to complete this sentence, so please fill in the blank with me. The cold weather in Minnesota keeps out the ______.  We know the cold weather keeps out the riffraff.
 
If you’re not from Minnesota, welcome.
 
Our Torah reading Behaalotekha introduces us to the Hebrew word for riffraff in chapter 11. First we read about the bitter complaining of the people before God and the fire that God sends, incensed at them, “ravaging the outskirts of the camp.”

The board of MAZON: A Jewish Response to Hunger and a group of rabbis from around the country were on Capitol Hill Wednesday lobbying against the House farm bill on the grounds that the nutrition title will make some Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP) participants lose benefits while not helping needy military families get food they need.

For several years, MAZON has pointed out that counting a service member’s Basic Allowance for Housing (BAH) as income when determining eligibility for federal nutrition assistance keeps needy families from qualifying for SNAP and said that excluding the BAH would help thousands of low-income military families put food on the table.

The House farm bill contains a provision that excludes the first $500 of a service member’s BAH from counting as income for SNAP eligibility determination, but MAZON maintains that amount is too low to make much of a difference.

Shavuot is May 19-21 this year, and we are pleased to have Rabbi Benjamin Segal as our Scholar-in-Residence that weekend, sponsored by Adath Chesed Shel Emes Cemetery and Chevra Kavod Hamet Burial Society.

Blood is essential for life: it carries oxygen and nutrients throughout the body, fights infections, and helps heal wounds. And everyone has this self-generating resource that can be generously given to others—when and where it is needed most.

• Accidents happen 24/7 that put our friends, family, and neighbors in danger  

• Blood transfusions save the lives of cardiac patients during surgery

• Premature infants come into the world often needing blood to survive

You or someone you know will need blood

If not personally in need, at some point we will all know a friend, neighbor, family member, or co-worker who needs a blood transfusion. In fact, 1 out of 3 people will need blood in their lifetime. From natural disasters to unforeseen catastrophes, emergency hospital procedures to life-long battles with chronic diseases such as sickle cell, the demand for blood is constant. The supply is not. And since there is no substitute, only volunteer blood donors can roll up their sleeves and save lives.

Sign up online at www.mbcherohub.club and enter sponsor code 1070 or contact Sarah at 651-332-7164.  Questions? Contact Adath’s Congregational Nurse, Elaine Savick: nurse@adath.net, or 952-215-3936.

“The Adath Jeshurun community, regardless of its physical address, has always been a ‘second’ home to me,” said Melissa Cohen Silberman.
 
Her parents were documented charter members of the “new” Adath Jeshurun Congregation at 3400 Dupont Avenue in South Minneapolis. With her grandparents and parents, Melissa regularly attended Friday night services. She attended nursery school with “Miss Dolly” and Sunday School. Among her teachers were Cantor Morris Amsel’s wife, Sabina, and Adath Past President Joyce Orbuch.
 
In her teens Melissa attended Talmud Torah at the Adath building, was part of Adath Junior Congregation, and sang with the Junior Choir under the direction of Marlys Fiterman. Following her 1966 Bat Mitzvah and confirmation, she became a member of Adath USY and appeared on the Social Hall stage in USY plays. As her growth continued, Melissa became one of the first teachers in the fledgling Saturday Morning Program (SMP) under the guidance of Rabbi Arnold M. Goodman. And on she went, to Herzl Camp, Camp Ramah and the Ramah Pilgrimage to Israel, all subsidized with Adath scholarships.
 
The major highlight and life-cycle event of her life came when she met her beloved husband Sheldon Silberman, marrying him in 1982 at the 3400 Dupont Avenue building, where they held their wedding reception and dinner. “No fancy hotels or destination location for us — ‘3400’ was without question the right choice,” Melissa exclaimed.

 
Sheldon became an active partner in Melissa’s volunteer efforts at Adath from 1993 to 1995, when Adath was literally a congregation without walls. For almost three years, Melissa created The Clari-Flyer insert for the monthly Clarion, complete with Sheldon’s exquisite birds-eye photographs. Each Clari-Flyer described detailed features of the new building and its progress.
  
The “new” 10500 Hillside Lane building bears numerous marks of Melissa’s family, and its connections to the Adath community through the generations. The Adult Lounge was donated by her immediate family in memory of her Mother, Annette (Honi) G. Cohen. The Adath/Bnai Emet Legacy Wall opposite the library showcases a pair of tall, majestic Baroque silver candlesticks, a gift from Melissa’s family in honor of her maternal grandparents’ 50th anniversary in 1963. Family and friends celebrated the event with a grand reception at the 3400 Dupont Avenue building.

Sad life-cycle events also occurred at both Adath locations, including the funerals of grandparents and parents. Melissa’s singing continues as a soprano in the Adath Adult Choir. For more than 13 years, she has been a volunteer Haftarah teacher to hundreds of students, and has served as a volunteer tutor. She beams proudly, sitting in the sanctuary as she watches each of her “kids” become a Bar or Bat Mitzvah.
 
In line with her family’s traditions, values, and deep commitment to the Adath community, Melissa and Sheldon have decided to leave a legacy gift to Adath.
 
As Melissa concludes, “The Adath has given us so much over the years. It is our turn to take care of future needs of this cherished community. Long after we are gone, we expect the Adath to continue serving, educating and comforting every member as written in its egalitarian mission. Universally, we expect the Adath community to flourish and meet the growing needs—in both our Jewish and secular communities—in the name of Tikkun Olam. May our gift as Legacy Society donors honor and uphold the values and traditions of our family and the beloved Adath generations now and forever. We encourage every member to join us.” 
 
To begin your legacy plan, contact Adath Foundation President Judy Gaviser, jgaviser@gmail.com, or Development Director Evan Stern at 952.215.3916, evans@adath.net.